Everyone wants to know, “When is the baby coming?”

One of the most common questions you’ll hear in late pregnancy is, “When is the baby coming?” What seems like excitement or curiosity from family and friends can quickly start to feel like pressure, especially when all you want is comfort and space to focus on your body and your baby. Constant questions about timing, even if well‑intentioned, can make you feel like your experience is on a schedule that isn’t your own. In reality, a due date is just a guess date; full‑term babies need at least 39 weeks to grow and mature, and they will arrive when they’re ready.

The waiting period can be long and emotional. It’s completely normal to feel tired of answering the same question day after day, especially when you don’t have control over exactly when labor will begin. What your body is doing is remarkable, and it deserves respect—not constant updates or pressure. You don’t owe anyone a timeline, and you get to decide how and when you share updates. A simple response like “We’ll let you know when there’s news!” or even choosing not to engage in repetitive questions can help protect your peace while keeping the focus on what truly matters: your comfort and readiness.

It’s also good to remember that people ask because they care. Your friends and family will be just as excited when you share the news in your own time. Until then, take gentle care of yourself, lean into the support you do want, and trust that your body and your baby are working together in their own perfect rhythm. You’ve got this, and you don’t have to carry other people’s timelines on top of everything else you’re already managing.